When you finally understand how the technology of reality actually works, you begin to actually step into the power of being able to shape and mold your own personal hologram. Curious what might be in store for you?
I’ve been trying to decide for three days what to say about our call and the word that keeps coming to mind is “Wow!” After we hung up, I was going about my business as usual, only it wasn’t as usual at all—everything was almost absurdly fun and delicious, from making a simple cup of coffee to taking out the trash. I think it would be more accurate to say that I was gallivanting about my business, laughing about things that would normally be annoying or frustrating (like accidentally spilling the recycling all over the kitchen floor) because they felt like opportunities to play instead of inconveniences. And that’s the gist of what our call did for me, really: it sort of unleashed my desire to play with anything and everything! You have the most amazing way of surfacing someone’s (totally unnecessary) self-defeating habits (like pinning all of their hopes and expectations on potential partners, in my case) in a way that makes us giggle at ourselves instead of kicking ourselves. That’s a huge distinction because one can’t get on with the business of having fun and reaching for what they want if they are too busy kicking themselves. 😛
In fact, I’ve had several memories visit me in the days since our talk, and I’m amazed at how differently I see them now. Looking back at “mishaps” that I’ve been kicking myself over for years, I’ve realized that they weren’t really even mistakes! I didn’t actually want that guy with whom I fumbled an opportunity to have a drink with in 2015 because he only half-asked. Nevermind that he is a successful actor—I want someone who is so damn sure that they want to have a drink with me, only half-asking wouldn’t even occur to him! SO THERE! 😀
I’m still tripping out on the difference between worthiness and deserving—you’re so right that they are not the same thing and that my problem was with the latter, not the former. (i.e. I knew that I was allowed to want the drink with Mr. Movie Star, but I didn’t think that I deserved it at the time. What a bunch of B.S.!) And the best part is that I am laughing about the fact that I misinterpreted that encounter for so many years, not kicking myself for it. You zeroed right in on my “roadblock” in such a remarkably short amount of time, and you didn’t bulldoze it. You didn’t argue with it. You just helped me figure out that it wasn’t really there—that there was nothing actually stopping me from stepping into my power. I’m still so surprised by all of the subconscious “shoulds” that I was inadvertently abiding by (I “should” want a lifelong relationship, I “should” want to settle down and have kids, I “should” want to do one thing with my life instead of many).
The “shoulds” aren’t necessarily gone but I feel much more able to recognize them for what they are, and choose what I want instead! You showed me just how simple it can be to stop what I’m doing, tune into the moment, and identify what I really want. And I’ll have that forever now! Thank you so much, Melody. You truly have a gift. Thank you for bringing OUR light to the world. 🙂
I’m a person who has a deep love for Nature and animals (and people too) and long to connect with beings in all forms in a deep, authentic, soul to soul way. This desire has guided me to be an energy healer and animal communicator, something I truly love doing, but something that truly causes me to feel stressed and insecure like nothing else. The stress comes from feeling I have to “perform”, or be “very good” at delivering results for my clients.
My coaching call with Melody was a request to help me in both deepening that connection that I so desire, AND letting go of the stress that’s draining the joy (and connection) in this amazing work I’m blessed to do.
Well, she got me on quite a ride! She lead me gently (and more poignantly at times) to realize that both my requests came from one thing mainly, my focus on results and a goal to give my clients their healing. Although this may even seem right as we read it, it’s actually not. My focus on delivering what they want makes me feel like their life HAS to change because of what I do, and that’s never how it happens. They have to come to their own healing realizations for themselves and my job is to be the lighthouse that keeps shining and holding their light in my awareness, so they can rediscover and reconnect with it too. That’s how true healing occurs, for people of all species. 🙂
Melody made that very clear to me, and she also helped me realize that by me focusing on and following my FUN, I’d be much more in that place of alignment where I do receive the information that is perfect for my clients (and me) at that particular time, and that alignment is also what facilitates deeper and deeper states of connection and communication with Nature and all Consciousness. I realized, deeper than ever, that I don’t trust fun and think that work should imply “work”, aka, be hard. 🙂 Sounds silly because I do know better than that, but sometimes we need a lighthouse to hold our own light and reflect it back to us, and that’s what Melody did for me with this coaching call. I felt layers of constriction and resistance come up and be dissolved time and again during our call, and I knew, by the end of it, that a lot of little (and big) things had changed.
And I’d love to share what happened to confirm that knowing. 🙂
Shortly after our coaching call the thought crossed my mind “what would bring me the most satisfaction now?” and a specific book popped into my mind (from my favorite shaman author, Serge Kahili King). So I picked up that book, got comfy on my couch, and opened at random.
It got me to a chapter on telepathic communication (of course!) and after reading a bit, it went straight to animal communication. As I was reading the author’s experience with communicating with the wind, I felt inspired to open my balcony window and send love and appreciation for the beautiful warm air outside. I sent appreciation for the lovely warm smells, for the flower and grass smells, for the sounds of the birds that the air carried, and with this, a bird came to my balcony. 🙂
They come say hi on occasion, especially if I’m feeling happy and light, but they only stay for 10/20 seconds, and if they notice me or any movement, they leave. Not this one!
I had the balcony door open, so, with the wind, the curtains were flapping and moving all over the place. He stayed there. And when he started chirping, and then singing more elaborate songs, I knew he was there for me, a beautiful messenger from Nature to reaffirm what we’d talked about in the call. So I tried to keep my mind from projecting anything and just tuned into how he felt. And he felt so patient, calm and loving that I started crying. He truly was there for me, to show me the support that Nature is always giving me, and I just felt so blessed and loved!
He stayed probably for 3-5 minutes, and I even saw him fly away and come back to the same spot, facing my window, reinforcing the message of patience, persistence and support. That Nature is patient and supportive of me I have no doubt, so I also took the message to be patient and supportive of myself, and to know that the beauty of Nature and all that I so love is right here, always available to me.
Thank you SO MUCH for helping facilitate this shift in my perception, Melody. My love and appreciation for you and your work just went to another level. 😀 THANK YOU!
I had been following Melody’s blog for years before I finally got a personal coaching session from her. While I have found the blog itself (and her book!) to be immensely helpful, the coaching session pretty much changed my life.
She was able to help me pinpoint a very deep-seated limiting belief that was affecting almost every aspect of my life, one that I didn’t even realize was there! Once I had this realization she helped me figure out a better energetic path to take to help me start to transform my life for the better.
When you work with Melody, she doesn’t beat around the bush and she cuts right to the heart of your problem and helps you shift your mindset to focus on what you can do (right now!) about said problem. It is not for the faint of heart, but if you’re willing and ready to take your life to the next level of awesome, don’t hesitate to try a coaching session with her. You won’t regret it!
As a fellow LOA coach, I was well aware of what was going on with me on an intellectual level, but as for how to handle it, I was lost. I was in uncharted territory that was much deeper than I had ever been, and leveling up in a way that I hadn’t experienced prior.
None of us are immune from the tendency to get stuck in our heads, and fall prey to our ‘humanness’ and being a coach by no means indicates I have it all figured out and don’t need help! She shared so many profound insights with me that probably would have taken me a long time to figure out on my own. Or maybe I never would have!
Sometimes we just need that fresh set of eyes that can see things we can’t see or often don’t want to see. This whole energy/LOA approach to life can seem a bit ‘out there,’ and having a coach validate your feelings, that you aren’t nuts for thinking this is how the world works, is extremely powerful because the energies of doubt and questioning can be very heavy, and really get in the way.
I love how Melody speaks so openly and frankly about what she is picking up on (in a high energy way), and I believe this is why people benefit so much from her coaching–she is addressing the real heart of the problem. She also openly shares her intuitive hits about the situation and your energy, and she was spot on for me.
I felt so much lighter after the call.The opportunity to talk to someone with so much wisdom and understanding was helpful beyond words, and I have a much clearer sense of how to handle my issues moving forward.
“My call with Melody was fantastic. She was able to pinpoint the beliefs behind my relationship with money with clarity and precision, and provided wonderful guidance in helping me shift my energy accordingly. I highly recommend working with Melody. She clearly explains how the law attraction works as it applies to your unique experience, and also does an amazing job of reading energy. Thank you Melody!”
“Melody knows how to balance being kind and being assertive when it comes to her exercises. What I like about her is that she sees the positives and also acknowledges the things that i can work towards to improve my life. This is the kind of person I needed in my life! Thanks for helping me out
Thank you so much!
I felt more in tune with what I wanted after one hour of working with Melody than FOUR YEARS of trying to do intensive work on my own. The perspective I gained, and the tools I have to work with opened up my brain so much!
I had been trying for years, without success, to align myself with energy to bring romantic love into my life. I had been doing this while my spirituality and career path was changing rapidly and drastically. Now I see that:
1) I was aiming too low when trying to meet men
2) My personal energy was changing so radically that I wasn’t in a place where I could attract the right man for me – if I did, it would stifle my growth
3) When I finish the spiritual and career transition I am currently in the middle of, I will be better able to attract the love I am looking for
It makes so much freaking sense!
Anyone with kids knows… children do not grow smoothly, they grow in spurts. Me finding love now is like buying shoes for a kid right before they have a growth spurt. Shoes that “fit” now won’t fit next week. They will feel small, constricting, and generally uncomfortable. Sometimes kids actually skip a size or two, so for the right fit, it is best to wait for the growth spurt to finish, THEN shop for shoes (or expect to throw out perfectly good shoes). What’s worse is that trying to force a kid into shoes that don’t fit well could mess up their growth trajectory and cause unnecessary pain.
I wasn’t finding love because I am in the middle of a growth spurt (skipping many sizes!). I need to finish this spurt or be prepared to throw out a man that doesn’t fit (after much discomfort).
I see now that my higher self didn’t want me interfering with my spiritual growth.
I also see that I will be ready for some phenomenal shoe shopping in the not too distant future… better than I have ever worn before!
Thank you, Melody
My gratitude cup runneth over
(you are better than a new pair of Jimmy Choo’s!)
“Some of the things I love most about Melody are her patience, her humanity and her complete and unconditional acceptance of everyone who comes to her. She is a phenomenally wise and enlightened human being, yet she seems to enjoy nothing more than engaging with the rest of us – no matter what level we’re at. Whenever I speak with her, I have the sense that she is one-hundred-and-twenty percent present; she has no judgement about what it is I want to talk about, she’s never dismissive or indifferent, and she invariably gives all of herself up to the conversation. It’s as if you are all there is for her in that moment.
Melody is deeply caring, and she has an uncanny ability to make you feel seen in the safest possible way – and to hold the space for some real magic to take place. Within a few weeks of my coaching call with her, an issue that I’d had going for over a year had shifted; but more than that, I felt like my understanding of the situation and of reality creation in general was so much deeper and so much clearer. Now I can’t wait for the next one!
Melody has been an absolute treasure in my life, and I hope to have the continued blessing of knowing and working with her for some time to come yet. (Plus, she’s a hoot!)”
I got in touch with Tina at a point in my life when I was getting pretty good at creating the reality I want. With her help I keep refining this ability and noticing the blocks. She has helped me speed up the process of manifesting my desires to an extent where I truly dare to believe that anything I wish for can come true. I don’t know what she does, but it feels like magic.