Coaching Call #016 – Getting Over A Divorce After Being Cheated On

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Topics covered on this call:

• Her husband had an affair for the second time and she asked him to leave
• He’s shown no concern for her feelings at all. She wants to know how he can be so cold after being married for 27 years.
• She’s asking herself what she did wrong in order to invite these experiences (two affairs), and why she couldn’t make him stay.
• She’s experiencing a lot of fear – she’s afraid for her children’s safety, etc. She feels unable to handle crises, which is not normal for her.
• Why it’s important to give ourselves permission to feel bad sometimes.
• What spiritual people do to block their negative emotions.
• She thought she was moving into forgiveness, but actually went into denial.
• How certain cultures in particular cause women to de-prioritize their own feelings
• Looking for patterns in the marriage to give clues as to what the vibration actually is/was.
• How she trained those around her to expect her to manage their vibration.
• Resetting her priorities so that these processes will actually work for her.
• How we enter into abusive relationships with ourselves.
• She did all she could to make her extended family happy. Now that she’s left her husband, the family is giving her the silent treatment.
• How those who have the biggest hearts get taken advantage of the most – and what to do about it.
• What causes a feeling of resentment.
• Letting go of the idea that this is somehow her “fault” or that she’s being punished.
• How and why we manifest such huge, painful experiences.
• How those 27 years of marriage prepared her for where and who she is right now.
• Why becoming LESS tolerant to pain is a good thing and how this happened naturally for her.
• How her asking for a divorce was actually a manifestation of her evolution.
• She’s on the cusp of a whole new era of her life.
• Why her marriage did not fail and how it actually served her.
• A big ol’ rant in favor of selfishness.