Coaching Call #012 – She Married An Abusive Man And Can’t Forgive Herself

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Topics covered on this call:

• She doesn’t understand how she could’ve ever made such a mistake
• She still has anxiety when it comes to relationships and men
• She feels that her actions defied her character and made no sense
• The relationships she had prior to this one were all positive
• Figuring out why she actually fell in love with him (cutting through the fog of denial)
• How abusive relationships progress
• Why an abused woman doesn’t notice the abuse until it’s too late
• She has lost trust in herself
• What causes people to be abusive
• Gaining perspectives on her ex husband’s real motives
• How her ex orchestrated an environment in which she would become powerless
• Finding the core emotion that we present before the abusive relationship manifested
• What the manifestation of an abusive relationship was actually showing her
• Aligning with the positives of the situation that she’s been blind to
• She feels inadequate because she’s now divorced
• Shifting into a better feeling perspective on being divorced
• What to do to apply this process to anything else she feels guilty about