Awesome Lisa would like to manifest more travel, but doesn’t currently have the funds to “make that happen”. Listen in and play along as I explain why money (or lack thereof…) isn’t the obstacle she thinks it is, and guide her through the process of manifesting what she wants.
Coaching Call #356 is out today! The topic of this week’s call is – Can She Release Her Weight Gain & Her Feelings About An Ex?
This caller’s weight has increased over the last few years which makes her feel both ashamed and frustrated. She believes there’s an energy reason as to why this weight is sticking around, but when she sits with it to find out what it is, she not getting an answer. There are many things that she now won’t do because she’s overweight, and socializing is one of them. The main reason for this is her fear of bumping into her ex, who she knows would criticize and judge her for her weight gain.
She ended the relationship with her ex, because he was destroying her soul. Even though she is now in a great relationship with a wonderful man, she is still very angry towards her ex, because of how he made her feel and how he treated her.
So, what’s causing her weight gain? Why do we feel ashamed about being overweight? Why does she still have feelings, albeit, negative feelings for her ex? Are her feelings about him and her weight gain connected? And, can she find a LOA way to release her extra weight?
Listen in to find out more!
This call is for you if you want both a body-led perspective and an energy perspective on how to lose weight.
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Caller – There! Can you see me?
Melody – Yay! Hi sweetheart, I haven’t seen you in ages.
Caller – Hi! Oh, ok – I don’t know, you know, all these questions are really great, and it kind of is answering my question; so, hopefully, this will still have some substance. So, I really love travelling, as you probably know. And, I did a lot earlier this year, and then, I kind of started panicking, like – oh my gosh, I don’t have any funds left, and, let me focus on making money.
So, the rest of this year I’ve been really in that mode; and, I’ve been squeaking by. It hasn’t been like, you know – it’s been ok. Hasn’t been like, wow, I’m raking in the dough! So, it’s kind of hard for me to feel like I’m ready to go back to travelling again, which is really, really, really what I want to do. Even though, I don’t really totally understand why I want to do it. Like, I know I want to meet people from other cultures, and know their stories and stuff like that. But, it’s not clear to me yet. And, I’m just, kind of; oh, what’s that exact question – it’s kind of like will it just happen when it’s supposed to, or is there something that I need to do to really push myself into that? I think, I already know the answer, but!! Ha-ha!!
Melody – I think, you just gave yourself your answer right there! If you’re ever asking, do I/should I – what do I need to do; do I need to push into this? No!! No! Definitely not!! You never want to push anything. You never want to force anything. And, you don’t need to. And it’s really the long, slow, hard way of doing things, and it will be less and less supported; which means, it will become more and more uncomfortable faster and faster. Where you’re like, “Ok, this just isn’t working!” Like straightaway. “I can’t force myself to push.”
And so, will it happen? Yes! But, that’s also not a satisfying answer because then, it’s like, “But when? How long do I have to wait? How long is it going to take?’
Caller – Right!
Melody – ‘Am I supposed to sit around and do nothing? I don’t get it!” And so, what you want to really look for is that you are not making money responsible for your ability to travel. That is putting one manifestation in front of another. You know that when you activate the frequency of what you want, whatever needs to come in to bring that about – will; which includes money. But, if you focus on the money – “Oh; I can’t do this until I have money, now you’re putting it in the way, instead of saying, “Yeah, the money will be part of it, but I don’t need to worry about that because that’s a how; that doesn’t have anything to do with me.”
Caller – Aaaahh!
Melody – We always want to be really careful with money, because we do tend to do that with money. “I need to get the money, so that I can….” Yeah? Or we want, just in case money. We don’t even have a manifestation; we just want, just in case money. I want money in the bank, just in case something happens. Or, just in case I want some money.”
Caller – Right!
Melody – Right? That very rarely works either. And, you can have extra money; it doesn’t mean you can’t have money in the bank, but not that way. So, what you want to do is: You want to focus on the feeling of travelling. Maybe, build that out a little bit more. Kind of, figure out what specifically feels so great to you about that. And then, I would look for – actually, look for the ways in which it’s starting to come into your reality now. Which will be much subtler; which probably won’t be trips and that might already be coming in. But, where you get that flavor through, maybe smaller ways; in ways that you hadn’t even thought of.
You don’t know why you’re not travelling in this moment, but let’s assume that it’s for a good reason. Maybe, you’re stabilizing; maybe there’s something that’s going to hit you that you need to clear. Maybe there’s something that you’re going to learn, or something that you’re going to discover. “Oh, I thought I wanted this; I actually want a slightly different angle – that!” It’s refined a bit.
But, it’s for you; because it always is. But also, so that you don’t get dissatisfied waiting for the travel, you start to bring that energy into your life more and more, as you can. Which also helps to really strengthen and speed up a progression.
And so, you might be inspired to get something for your home that is really travelly, for example. So, every time you walk by it, you’re like, “Oh my God! And, it’ll elicit that feeling. Right? You might decide to throw a party where everybody comes from a different country, where you’re like, “Yeah, bring it in!” You can invite foreign friends, but, even if they’re not foreign, they’ve got to dress like they are; and maybe learn a little bit something about their country. So, when somebody asks them, like, “Oh, you’re from Ecuador! What’s in Ecuador? And then, they’re not like, “I don’t know!” They’re like, “Oh, actually, we have banana exports.” Or, whatever!
You could do it like that; make it really fun, so that people – I mean, not racists, obviously. But you learn a little bit something about a different culture, and maybe share that with each other. Maybe they have to bring a dish with them. I don’t know!! Or, you do a theme of a different country every month, and everyone knows – Lisa’s parties are legendary. Because this time we’re doing Mexico, and now we’re doing Singapore.” I don’t know what the Singapore theme is; she figured it out!
And you share those cultures with your friends. Maybe some of the one’s that you’ve visited, where you learned some things. And, you’re like, “Did you know that they did that?” So, if you go to Japan, and you experience a tea ceremony, maybe you want to show somebody a tea ceremony, and you get some really good Matcha, like the really good stuff, not the brown, orangey crap, but like the bright green one. Right? They may never have experienced that, and they’re like, “Oh, this is really special.”
You can already bring more of that, your love of cultures in to where you are now. If there’s a museum exhibit on; go to that! And bring some of that energy into your life in a really fun way. That will also keep you from getting too impatient about: where’s the big trip, where’s the big trip, where’s the big trip?
So, the last 3 years, I haven’t travelled at all, and I’ve travelled heavily before that. And, I mean, not at all, but just within the United States I’ve travelled for conferences and stuff, not for, “Oh, I’m going to go to here for a week, and just see what I see.” And, in a conference you don’t see anything; you’re in the hotel. And, even though, that gets me together with all kinds of people, and it’s always really fun for me, it’s not the same as travelling. And, vacationing is not the same as travelling. I know you know what I mean. Right? That’s what needed to happen though, because when I look at the last few years and what unfolded, and everything that I created, I couldn’t have done that if I was travelling all the time. It would have been really stressful. It was hard enough as it was; kind of kicked my ass a couple of times; but that’s what needed to happen. And now, next year, I’m already booking trips galore. Like, it’s just opening up and the Universe went: “And, here’s your passport back. Now, go out into the world.” And, I’m like, “Yes!! Woo!” Right?
But that needed to happen. And so, sometimes, we need that downtime, even those of us who love to travel, we need to stay put for a little while, to let some shit come together. That needs to happen; that often isn’t clear until hindsight.
Caller – Hmmm!
Melody – Does that make sense?
Caller – Yes it does! And, it’s kind of funny because yesterday, I got, as a Christmas present from my mom; it’s this Lonely Planet travel book. It’s got, like, every country in the world; and I had thought about that the other day, I was like: “Oh, I used to have it, but now I don’t have it. And, it would be cool.” And then, my mom sent it to me.
Melody – Bam! Yeah? I don’t really feel like there’s anything going wrong. I feel like you’ve been put in the timeout chair for a little while.
Caller – Ok!
Melody – And, not as punishment; as a – you need to sit down for a second, and let something happen.
Caller – Right! Ok.
Melody – Not, as a – Oh, you don’t get to travel anymore because you have resistance to it. It’s not like that. It’s just something needs to happen and nothing is going wrong here at all. And, I think, that if you look for the signs, the Universe will absolutely show you that; that you’re absolutely still very supported. Nothing is going wrong here. It’s just like, you don’t fully understand. So, it’s like you’re at Disney Land, and you want to run into it, and you’re mom’s like, “No! Wait a minute; we’ve got to pay.” And, you’re like, “I don’t need to pay!! – “No, you have to stand in line, and…” – “No, I just want to run in there. Why can’t I just do it now?” – “Well, you just give it 5 minutes!!”
Caller – Ha-ha!
Melody – It’s more like that! Yeah?
Caller – Hmmm! Yeah, ok.
Melody – Helpful?
Caller – Yes! Yes! Thank you so much, Melody, appreciate it.
Melody – You’re so welcome. You’re so welcome! Good talking to you again!
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