In today’s Q and A video, Awesome Holly wanted to know if her mom, who passed away 3 years ago was “ok”. Is it actually possible to communicate with the “dead”? Can we continue having a relationship with someone who has passed on? And if so, how??
Well, that’s exactly what we’ll discuss in today’s video!
Coaching Call #348 is out today! The topic of this week’s call is – Can She Release Her Social Anxiety & Her Angry Towards Her Ex?
This caller suffers with social anxiety where she feels people are judging and criticizing her when she’s around them. This belief is now being mirrored back to her in various manifestations, especially with her ex-partner, who she’s co-parenting with. Their relationship is very toxic, and he will often get mad at her, criticize her, and he’ll twist what she says so they end up in a very unpleasant situation together. She feels a lot of anger towards him and would love for him not to be in her life anymore, but as they have a child together this isn’t likely to happen.
Why has she developed a limiting belief that people are judging her? Can she release the version of her ex that she gets? Can she safely and constructively release her anger towards him and have a better relationship with him, or even have him possibly leave her reality? And, what will happen to her social anxiety when she releases her fear of being judged and criticized by other people?
Listen in to find out more!
This call is for you if you suffer with social anxiety, and if you want to learn how to release anger in a safe and constructive environment.
Hey, my happy shiny puppies, this is Melody Fletcher, your go-to for everything Law of Attraction and Reality Creation. And today, I’ve got a treat for you! What follows is an excerpt from one of our live Q&A calls, where people just like you, students just like you, were able to ask me questions, and I answered them. And today, you’re going to get one of those. And, as you’ll see, in the coming weeks, we’re going to be rolling out more and more of these.
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Caller – Hello! Thank you, wow!! What a great question.
Melody – Wasn’t it though?! I know; I loved it.
Caller – Yes; and that was perfect for me because my question is: is my mom ok? She passed almost 3 years ago, and I need to know that she’s ok. I believe it, but I want to KNOW it.
Melody – So, what makes you think she’s not?
Caller – Because I don’t see her like I used to, physically.
Melody – Yeah!
Caller – And – yeah, and so – and I need to know she’s happy, and living life, and that I will see her again.
Melody – Ok! So, not only is she happy, you can’t even imagine the happiness that she has.
Caller – Ok!
Melody – Yeah? It is so far beyond human understanding that when you catch a glimpse of it, it’s like, ahh – like, you know, like, your heart just explodes with love. And that’s just scratching the surface; there’s so much more.
Caller – Aha!
Melody – Living life is a little bit of a misnomer because she may very well be incarnated many, many times in parallel lives – but she’s also, always, in the non-physical. It’s kind of like, when you play a video game, you don’t cease to exist outside of the video game. You’re still sitting there with the controller even though you’ve got a character in the video game. Right?
Caller – Hmmm.
Melody – So, she was always there, and sometimes she’s here also.
Caller – Oh, ok!
Melody – So, it’s not like, oh, did she incarnate? Is she there, or is she here now. It doesn’t matter if she’s here now; she always there. And she’s always there for you to connect with. But, the problem with the dead – “the dead” (there’s no such thing as death), but the problem with those who are no longer in the physical and those you have left us – even though they didn’t leave – is that they will no longer lower their vibration to meet us.
Caller – Oh!
Melody – Which means that when we are in grief, when we are in fear, when we are in negative emotion we often cannot hear them. It is never a question of whether or not it’s being broadcast, whether they’re available to talk to us; it’s are we available to hear them. And, your mother is not despairing – and this is true for everyone’s dead relative, by the way. Your mother is not despairing that you can’t hear her because she does not despair; not in that state. But she rejoices when you do.
So, it’s often a little bit difficult to understand for people, because they don’t understand that you can be perfectly happy when something doesn’t happen, but also rejoice if it does. But it doesn’t have to be a disappointment. So, she’s not like, “Come on, come on, Holly, listen to me, I’m here! I’m here; I’m here. Oh, please, please; Oh, I wish she would….”
No, it’s not like that. It’s more like, “I’m here honey; I’m here. I haven’t gone anyway; I’m right here. I’m right here.” And, that’s when you get it, when you get a little message, and you validate that that was from her, a little song on the radio; a smell, something that caught your attention; a book that falls off the shelf, and you’re like, “Oh my God! This is mom’s favorite book!” Anything! A bird comes, and flies in a certain way that makes you go: “Mom? Like, that reminds me of mom.”
And then, don’t just dismiss that, validate that. You should see the happy dance!!
Caller – Oh!
Melody – They do a happy – they’re like, “She’s got it!! Yay, woohoo!” Even though, there’s no despair of any kind if you don’t. She’s doesn’t need you to get it; she wants you to get it.
Because she will be with you for the rest of your life; she will be there for you for the rest of your life. She will never ever, ever not be there. And, it’s multi-dimensional, so she can do that and do a whole bunch of other shit at the same time. You’re never bugging her; you’re never taking time away from her. She can be in more than one place at the same time, so you don’t have to worry – “Oh well, maybe, she’d rather be knitting right now. And, I’m taking her; or maybe she’d rather be partying. You know? And, I’m taking her away from it.” No, you’re not!
And so, we don’t have to get so linear about everything, so what if she’s been reborn, then she won’t show? She’ll always be there; and she will be with you for the rest of your life. Loving you, supporting you; she’s part of your team.
Caller – Yeah!
Melody – So, not, only is she ok, she’s like, “I’m ok, are you ok? Stop worrying about me, and start focusing on yourself.”
Caller – Ok! (sorry)!
Melody – She’ll always be there to support you; to love you, to fire you on. But she’s also, at the same time, having a ton of fun, but she’s got a different view.
So, we always like to ask questions such as: “Well, what are they doing? Does she still have her hobbies? Does she….” It’s not like that because it’s not physical. Now, they do live, they focus on things. Absolutely! But that personality that you knew as your mom is still there, but is incorporated into a much larger personality. So, it’s, kind of, like saying, you were playing – what was that game, that annoying, fucking game on Facebook a while back? Was it FarmVille or something like that, where you always got the invites? Something like that. Right? Where your little character has to like – I don’t know – roost chickens, and build little farms, and, (I’ve never played it, but I’m surmising), but there are games like that. Right?
And so, your little character spends all day planting carrots, and then, doing this, and then she gets like hobby points, I don’t know, for going in and playing a game with her dog, whatever. And then somebody comes to you and goes, “Oh, hey! I saw you in the video game, now I’m seeing you in real life; do you still like playing that game with your dog?” And, you’re like, “That’s in the game, man. Like, yeah, I enjoyed that, but I’m bigger than that.” That doesn’t make so much sense. Right?
Caller – Hmmm.
Melody – “So, yeah, I do that there, but, in real life I might, it’s kind of like, I played with my little cartoon dog and here I play with my real dog; it’s a much richer experience. Right?
Caller – Hmmm.
Melody – So, that’s why it doesn’t make sense, to kind of go: “Do you still do that?” It’s like, yeah, maybe, but not in that form, like, a much bigger way of doing that. That interest might still be there, but it will be a bigger thing, and something that we often can’t wrap our heads around all that easily. Because, again, we live in 3D and we see things the way we see things.
But she’s having fun and she loves you, and she’s right there with you.
Caller – Ok.
Melody – And, when you open yourself up to getting messages from her, which probably won’t be her standing in your living room, talking to you! It’ll be little, subtle things at first that you have to then validate. So, when something reminds you of your mom, consider it a message from your mom.
Caller – So, my dreams, I dream about her all the time.
Melody – Yeah, that’s her!! Are you kidding?! Yes, that’s her.
Caller – Oh, ok! ok! Awesome!
Melody – It is easier for you to accept the connection through your dream state; you have less resistance there. And yes, that’s absolutely her. Validate that; accept that, that is her. And, that’s how it’s coming in right now, so just celebrate that. And don’t shit all over it by saying, “Well, that’s nice, but it’s only in my dream state; I wish it was happening in my waking state.” It’s happening! That’s all you need to care about, it’s happening.
Caller – Yes! Thank you so much Melody. Thank you!! I needed to hear that. And, one quick question: Was she behind the scenes organizing this question, because about 3 or 4 days before you asked me to be part of this, I begged my mom to let me know that she was ok.
Melody – ‘Was she behind the scenes helping to organize this question?’
Caller – Sorry!
Melody – No, that’s ok. Give me a second. She didn’t need to. You had the question. So, she didn’t – you’re kind of asking, if she helped you manifest this question. And no, she did not; that’s you.
Caller – Oh, wow!
Melody – Because, I mean, your question bounced off in confusion, and I kind of looked at her face, and she’s like no – the question doesn’t make any sense because what you’re asking is: “Did you manifest this for me mom?” And, she’s like, “No!”
Caller – Hmmm.
Melody – So, did she help you organize this question? She’s happy you asked it. And, she’s cheering you on, but she didn’t have to give you the question, you already had the question. You’re like, “Give me a sign, give me a sign.” And, she’s like, “I am, I am; I am.” But, did she pull you kicking and screaming to this call? No!!
Caller – No, no!
Melody – You manifested it. You wanted to know; you manifested the answer. She cannot push the answer on you. It’s always given, but she cannot push it on you. She can’t force you to do anything. You – that’s you; you have to listen, you have to make the decision. So, that’s why that question doesn’t make any sense. Does that make sense?
Caller – That does make sense. I mean, I got it, but I – I got it; I just need to let it soak in.
Melody – She can communicate with you, and she can send you – one could even say, she can send you inspiration, to a certain degree, but not really. Not to the point where you’re like, “I don’t know why I’m doing this. Is this my mom?” No, it’s you! It’s you. She cannot make you do anything. She can’t make you hear her. She can’t make you listen. She can’t make you go down the street in a different direction. She can’t make you, that would override your free will. And, that’s not – that wouldn’t be ok, and she would never want to do that.
But she is always sending you information. She’s always sending you love; she’s always sending you data, and it’s up to you to hear it. So, that’s really an important part; the empowerment of the individual. We have to open up to hear it. It’s always given; doesn’t matter if you’re talking about your dead mom, if you’re talking about your guides, if you’re talking about the Universe, if you’re talking about mother earth; it’s always given. It’s our job to be able to receive it.
Caller – Yes.
Melody – You opened up a little bit bigger can there than you thought!
Caller – Oh, sorry!
Melody – No, no problem! I know that wasn’t the answer you were expecting, but that was the answer you got because, I can’t let a non-sensical question stand! Does that make more sense now?
Caller – It does; it really does. I need to process it because I’m still half-asleep. But I had to get up and ask this question; I was so excited. So, thank you. Yes, and so, that way, I know my brother’s ok as well. So that, yes! Yes!
Melody – They’re all ok; they’re more than ok.
Caller – They should be worried about me. Right? Hehe!
Melody – Well yes, and they’re not worried about you because they know your power, and they know what you’re doing. But, really, if anybody was going to be worried about anybody, you know, it’s kind of like, they’re watching you from the stands and you’re in the gladiatorial arena, and you’re going, “Is my mom ok?” And, she’s like, “Honey, watch the spears. Like, I’m fine!! You; you….” Yeah?
Caller – Hehe!
Melody – And, that’s about as much sense that that makes. Like, she’s sitting there eating grapes and drinking wine, and you’re going, “Are you ok?” And, she’s like, “You’re the one in the arena honey! You’re the one in the game. You’re the one battling it out. You’re the one doing this big thing that we’re all so proud of you for. You do not need to worry about me for one second.”
Caller – Thank you! Thank you, Melody.
Melody – You’re welcome.
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