In last week’s video (ok, two weeks ago… I got a bit behind, what with moving and setting up my whole new life. But we’re all good now. Yay!), I introduced the idea that we’re now in the ascension process and challenged you to “shit or get off the pot”, amongst other things. In this week’s video, I wanted to clarify some of the phrases I used, answer some of the most frequently asked questions I received from the last video (including if the LOA is a cult), and offer a deeper explanation of the concepts I introduced. Let’s go further down the rabbit hole, my puppies! And, know that this is just the beginning… Yay!
Coaching Call #192 is out! The topic of this week’s call is: How Can She Stop Taking The Hard Road To The Reality She Wants?
This caller left her last job because her boss was a bully, but since leaving she hasn’t been able to find another job. She’s lost all confidence in herself, and doesn’t understand why she allowed herself to manifest these situations.
She was a general manager for a hotel and she used to dream of owning her own hotel, but without the money to fund it, she’s stopped daydreaming about it.
So, if we create our reality (we do), how did she manifest the bullying boss and not being able to find a job in the last year? Why has she stopped daydreaming about owning her own hotel, and how can she align her energy with what she really wants?
This call is for you, if you’re manifesting situations you don’t want, and you’ve now stopped daydreaming about the reality you truly want.
Here’s the video:
In today’s video I’d like to answer some of the questions that came up from last week’s video, where I talked about “Stepping Up”, and where I challenged you to engage with this energy that is rolling so fast now and that’s really coming up in 2016. I’d also like to answer the questions I got around the phrase I used “It’s time to shit or get off the pot.” It seems to have confused a few people, along with some of the other statements that I made, so I’m hoping that today’s video is going to clarify a couple of things for you.
The real meaning behind the “shit or get off the pot” comment
This comment was not meant to make you think that it’s an ultimatum or a threat of some kind. If you heard it that way, that means that some of your fears came up that have been perpetuated (possibly for many years), maybe by a religious belief, about ascension. You might’ve heard it as: “Do this or something bad is going to happen.” That is not how I meant it at all. It was meant to be a positive challenge. If you don’t jump on this train, so to speak, nothing bad is going to happen to you. It just means you are not going to be living to your full potential, and you are not going to be realizing the true awesomeness of what is possible for you. Not even close.
It was a positive challenge, a little bit like standing on the edge of a cliff and you’re ready to jump with a bungee cord, you’re hooked up, everything is ready, all the equipment is ready, and in that moment you step back from the cliff and decide not to jump. Nothing bad is going to happen. It just means that you’re not going to have the awesome experience of bungee jumping off that cliff.
Please don’t see this as a threat or a warning of any kind; I would never talk to you guys like that – don’t you know that by now?! Honestly, it was a positive challenge and if you don’t like the phrase, “shit or get off the pot”, use another one. I use it to emphasize that the time is now; I use it in a positive sense or an excited sense. For example, the rollercoaster is about to take off now! This is now; this is the time!
LOA is not a cult
The other question that I got from last week’s video (it was genuinely asked by several people in the comments section on this blog, You Tube comments section and the emails I received), was about stepping into this belief fully. Some people heard that the wrong way and thought it sounded a little bit “Cult-ey”. They asked me if I was asking them to be in a Cult. They did say they knew that this wasn’t something that I’d do, but it was a fear that came up for some people. They wanted me to talk about that, so I’m very happy to address that.
I am fully aware that there are people out there who are using this type of information and what I teach, at least in the beginning stages, to help people have shifts and then, because they have benefited them so much, they then rope these people into a kind of dependent relationship. I’m being very careful here on how I word this, because I’m not here to disparage anybody, but that does happen and I’m fully aware of that. What that entails is that people will ask you to believe blindly in some kind of belief system and it doesn’t matter what that belief is. I do the exact opposite of that! I will never ask you to believe blindly, nor will I ask you to follow me, or anybody else, or believe in anybody in that way, because that means you are giving your power away. Again, this is the opposite of what I teach. My teaching is to take back your power and be “Empowered.”
You don’t have to get rid of your doubts; own your doubts! This isn’t about blindly letting go of your doubts or washing over them and being in denial. This is about owning your doubts and choosing the better feeling thought consciously – choose the better feeling perspective consciously and deliberately. It’s about creating more awareness in your life, not less. This will make you completely unsusceptible to those kinds of entities that want to rope you in to some kind of cultish behavior or where they ask you to blindly believe something. Don’t blindly believe anything, not from any source.
In fact that is what this work is really all about; it’s what is at the core of this work. It’s for you to understand that nothing should ever supersede your own guidance system. No guru, no expert and no authority. Always, always, always filter everything through your own guidance system, pay attention to it and trust it. That means if somebody says something that resonances with you, great! If the next thing out of their mouth doesn’t resonate with you, that’s fine too. Disregard it even if it’s me, or somebody else that you have trusted for a long time. It doesn’t matter, because this is your power and it’s for you, in every moment, to evaluate whatever comes into your reality and to see if this is something that resonates with you or if it’s something that doesn’t resonate with you. The only person who can be the judge of that for you – is you.
Nobody else can tell you what will resonate with you; that is your responsibility. That is what I teach, and that is what is at the core of all of this teaching – it always comes back down to you. It is your responsibility, but it’s also your power and it’s an enormous amount of power. When you start to really take that responsibility, when you really start to choose deliberately and consciously what you subject yourself to, what you let into your reality and what perspective you want to adopt – you can change anything in your life! You can change anything in your reality and I really do mean anything. It’s to infinity – that is where the possibilities lay.
Choosing the better feeling perspective
This is not small stuff and that is what I’m asking you to step up into. Again I’m not asking you to believe blindly, but if you are wondering how this level of belief is built – it’s built by making that choice over and over and over again. Choose the better feeling perspective. Because guess what? The better feeling perspective is always going to be the more empowering perspective. I have yet to become aware of a human who does not feel better when they become more empowered. When you are automatically, habitually, and consistently choosing the better feeling perspective that raises your vibration, it allows you to step into this belief more and more and it gives you access to that belief more and more.
This not about forcing yourself to believe something that you don’t already believe. Work with where you are; work with your belief systems where they are. It’s about you choosing the perspective that you want to choose! Not the perspective that I say is better or that somebody else says is better; it’s all about what you want and what feels better to you.
I hope I’ve clarified this question and the fear that it brings up or the fear that it springs from. Maybe it’s a fear that you might be enslaved by this, or that you might be duped by something or that you might have one pulled over on you without awareness. This is the exact opposite of that. It’s about building awareness and about you choosing what you want and not letting anybody tell you what that is. It’s about not letting anybody tell you what feels better for you.
Today’s Q&A has come from the questions you guys sent me and as always, if you have a comment that you’d like to share, or you have a question you’d like to ask, please do so below.
Until next time, Bye!