It’s that time of year! The last blog post for 2015. At the end of every year, I apply a process that helps me to raise my vibration and then energetically set up the whole next year, plus bring in massive amounts of positive manifestations in January, February and March. I love this process and have been doing it (and sharing it) for years. So why not join me by following along and applying to your own life? But remember, don’t freak out when your life actually starts to change! Ha.
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Hello my puppies! In today’s video, I’d like to take you through my year end process. At the end of every year, I do a blog post that lets you know the process that I go through in order to review the year that has passed and how I set myself up energetically for the year that’s to come. I’ll put some links in the description below to past blog posts that describe this process, but I thought this year that I’d do something different and shoot a video.
How I set energetic goals
At the end of every year, I sit down and I review what has happened to me in the past year and compare it to the goals (the loose, general, energetic goals) I set myself at the beginning of the last year. So, at the beginning of 2015, I sat myself down and I set up a few goals for my business and my personal life. These aren’t really specific goals when I set them, they are not for example, to quit smoking, or to make a certain amount of money. They were about me creating a bigger impact and getting out there in a bigger way; they were goals just for me.
At the end of the year I look at them and see what worked, what didn’t work, and I look to see if I have progressed in any of those things. I do not beat myself up for not meeting these goals in a specific way; I look at the progression of what’s happened; have I gotten better at something, have I gotten out there in a big way, did I face my fears and did I release any resistance on some issues where I have resistance?
This is a little bit different from a goal setting exercise to lose 20lbs or quit smoking, and when you realise you didn’t do that, you then start to feel bad about yourself. What I do is a good feeling exercise.
What to look for
What you want to do is to sit down and look at everything you accomplished this year, every way in which you grew, and every way in which you progressed in some way.
For me, a lot happened this year. I brought out my book, Deliberate Receiving: Finally, the Universe Makes Some Freakin’ Sense! Published by Hay House. That was a huge milestone for me and something I feel incredibly proud of. My baby is finally out there and I’m a very proud mommy!
I moved out of Barcelona, Spain, after living there for 13 years. I’m being called to move to the United States, and I’m also going to be travelling quite a bit for the next few months. By the time you watch this video, I will be a month away from moving to the U.S. and to the cosmopolitan and metropolitan city of Boise, Idaho. Don’t ask me why, but my intuition is pulling me there, so that’s where I’m going. It was a big journey to leave Barcelona and to go someplace else; once again that was a real big shift in my life.
I grew in countless ways and I released all kinds of resistance, and one of my goals was to take my business to a much bigger level. I got a lot of education this year and I released a lot of stuff around that and so for 2016 I am now perfectly set up to take my business to the next level and I’ll tell you more about that in just a bit.
Celebrate what you have accomplished
The first step to my year end process is to sit down and celebrate what you accomplished this year, without the bad feeling comparison about what you thought you would accomplish but didn’t. Take a few moments to do this and it should get you into a really good feeling space. If you are not in a good feeling space, you are not trying hard enough. You are focusing on the things that you wanted to accomplish but didn’t. Look at the things that you actually did accomplish and give yourself credit for them and celebrate. Once you’ve done that and while you are still in this energetic state, go ahead and start looking at the year ahead. Don’t get too specific with it, look forward to what it is you want to accomplish and look at the areas in your life that you want to expand on.
The next bit of advice I’m going to give you is counter intuitive to any goal setting advice you’ve ever had. You’ve probably been told to be super specific and to put a timeline around your goals, which you’ve probably been doing for the last few years. But ask yourself, how has that been working out for you? If it hasn’t, try doing it a different way this time.
Look at where you want to progress. For example, you want to take your business to a new level, like me, or maybe you want to work on your relationship. So using the example of the relationship, start by committing yourself to working on it, look for the different ways of doing that, and get into the energy of what a really good relationship feels like. Look at your husband or wife in a different way, and then watch to see if you are inspired to do something, to actually take some action from that energy place. That’s why you don’t want to get too specific, because you don’t know what you are going to be inspired to do. Embody that energy and then daydream about it; really daydream about it; punch this vision up until it makes you dance around the room. If you’re not dancing around the room, if you’re not almost breathless with excitement about the vision for the next year; you are not thinking big enough! You need to go a lot bigger. This next year is going to be the best one ever! Yes, I say that at the beginning of every year but guess what? I’m always freakin’ right! It always is the best one ever; it just keeps getting better and better and better.
What is making me dance around the room this year?
I got a lot of education this year and I’m really set up to take my business to the next level. I’m going to be revealing an on-line program (you are the first to hear about it), that’s going to allow me to serve a lot more people. My business has been based on personal 1-2-1 coaching for a long time now and my waiting list is so long that there are people on it who will probably never get to talk to me. I really don’t like that; it just isn’t satisfying for me. I have been looking for a way to, and getting into the energy of serving a lot more people, and I finally got the big download where the method and how I can go about doing that came in.
We are going to be creating the “Happy Shiny Puppy Boot Camp” [actually, it’s probably the Deliberate Receiving Bootcamp, as it was pointed out to me that someone who hasn’t been following this blog might think it’s a dog training program…]. I don’t have a specific date for that yet, I’m letting it happen in perfect time, but it will happen in the first half of 2016, so that’s something you can look forward to.
I also have all kinds of other things in the works that I’m going to be reviewing and other products that are going to be serving you guys. I’m already working on my next book, which is almost certainly going to be about the physical body and how the technology of the body works [or maybe not. This insight changes a lot].
In January I’m going to Peru, spending time with my Shamanic Buddy, Javier. I did a video with him last year which you can find here. I will see what else hits me there, what inspiration comes to me, but right now I’m really dancing around the room looking forward to moving to the States, looking forward to getting my own house, looking forward to getting a new community and tribe, and looking forward to spending time with my beautiful family and my two gorgeous nephews who live in the States.
I’m having a fantastic time building the new product for you guys, and putting so much energy forward to seeing you getting tons and tons of benefit from it, and I’m also working on my next big live event! Yes it’s coming, you guys have been asking for it, so we are looking at doing that and I cannot wait! It’s going to be bigger, it’s going to be better, and it’s going to glitzier and more luxurious than it was the last time! I know you’re thinking, that’s not possible, but it will happen!
All of that is making me dance around the room!
Whatever your vision is for next year, get yourself into a good space celebrating what you did this year, and then look forward to next year; punch it up, bigger, bigger and bigger, until it makes you dance around the room and it makes you totally breathless with excitement, and then – spend all the holidays there! You will amazed at how much of it will manifest in the first few months of the year!
I used to do this in my corporate days; I have been doing this for ages, even back then. I would also do a version of this on my Spa holidays, where I still go every year, which is my tradition. I would make some space, and then I’d get into a really good space about my life (past, present and future)! It was amazing (even though I didn’t really spend time in a super positive space the rest of the year), how much started to manifest in January, February and March.
If you are not a happy shiny puppy yet, try this technique; it works!
Finally, I want to say a big, fat “thank you” to all of my puppies out there, all of my viewers, all of my readers, everybody who has bought my book this year, everybody who sent me an email letting me know that I helped you; I am so appreciative of you, and I hold the energy for all of you to get everything, everything that you want, even the stuff you don’t even realise you want yet!
I cannot wait to see you guys next year; you have a wonderful, wonderful New Year’s!
If you want to share what you accomplished this year and what you want to accomplish next year, please leave your comments below!