Are psychics and astrologers for real? How can you tell if they’re any good? And should you believe them? Today’s question revolves around a reader who would like to go abroad but was told by numerous psychics and astrologers that this was very unlikely to happen… What really happened there and how can she clean up her energy so she can have the life she wants? Watch today’s video to find out!
Coaching Call #169 is out! The topic of this week’s call is: Her Relationship Ended and Now She Feels Rejected.
This caller’s relationship ended recently and she’s still missing him. When they broke up, she felt she’d been rejected and that she wasn’t good enough for him.
The caller was surprised to learn that the rejection she felt stemmed from a long-buried childhood belief, which we were able to dig up and release.
What beliefs cause us to feel rejected and not good enough when a relationship ends? Have we really been rejected when a relationship finishes or are we evolving with a new and better perspective?
This call is for you if you’re holding onto a romantic relationship that’s ended, and you’re feeling bad about yourself and your own worth.
Awesome Dudette’s Burning Question:
I received you book last week and I am in love it with!! I’m currently reading it for the second time.
Because of your book I finally understand, in detail, how we have resistance to certain issues and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck.
However… I used to REALLY be into astrology and psychics in the past and I have realized how their predictions of my future have been keeping me from manifesting a lot of the things I’ve wanted, because I thought I couldn’t have them, since they said I couldn’t.
Well, I always wanted to move abroad ever since I was little, and all these different astrologers I used to go to, kept telling me how it was not going to happen, since my horoscope didn’t say so. Or, they’d tell me that the chances were only 10%. My rational mind would never agree but every time I think or visualize going abroad, the images of them saying I can’t go are keeping me stuck.
How can I do some vibration cleaning so I’m not stuck anymore? And can have the life of my dreams? How can I change this limited belief and move on to manifest my dream life?”
Here’s my answer:
Thank you very much Awesome Dudette. I have written about psychics and the like before, and if we are going to be honest about the definition of psychic, I could call myself a psychic. I don’t, because I don’t want all the baggage that comes with that term. A psychic person is simply somebody who can read energy and astrology is a tool through which you can do that. There are limitations to doing that, but here’s the thing sweetie: You cannot outsource your manifesting! If somebody comes and tells you that they know exactly what your path is going to look like, then they’re deluding themselves.
Nobody can tell you exactly what your path is going to look like
You can’t even see your entire path, and you don’t want to. Nobody wants to play a video game where they know where every secret door is, where every dragon is and they know how to do everything. That is just super, super boring and you don’t want that life. What you can only ever do is see the next piece of your path. All that somebody else who is reading your energy can ever do (this is why you should never look for somebody to predict your future, not even your guides are ever going to predict your future for you), is see how aligned you are with something, i.e. how much resistance you have, how close you are to it, right now in this moment, not how close you are likely to be 10 years from now, or 5 years from now, or even tomorrow. Any change you make in your energy is going to create a new point of attraction, a new progression, and from that point, somebody would have to read your energy again.
When I work with clients and they ask me questions, such as, “Will I do this, or will I go and do that?” I never accept those questions because I don’t know if they are going to choose to go and do something they want to do (“I don’t know, will you? Are you going to go and have ice cream tomorrow?“); only they can make that choice. However somebody like me who can read energy, can tell you how close you are to manifesting your dreams.
Here is the clue that is going to get you out of the cycle that you are stuck in: You need to own your own vibration and your manifestations. These astrologers and psychics who came into your life and gave you these negative messages, they were nothing more than representations of your resistance. And that’s why it didn’t mesh with what your logical mind wanted, because our resistance is often not logical. If it was, all the smart people would have figured this out long ago, instead of tending to get in their own way more.
How manifestations show you your resistance
Your manifestations showed you what resistance you still have and now your blaming of the psychics and the astrologers is keeping you from realizing what that resistance actually is. It’s a distraction. It’s easier for you to blame it on the astrologers by saying, “If they hadn’t said that to me then I wouldn’t have this resistance.” This keeps you from looking at your resistance and stops you from seeing that they were a manifestation of your resistance, to point out to you that something is going on here.
So, how do you ferret it out? I’ve given you the technique in my book and since you’re read it I will review it here with you. The best technique that I’ve found for doing this that I can teach you through a video is this: You visualize going abroad and then you watch for the “Yea…but’s”. What doesn’t feel good about it? What are the actual obstacles that come up? For example, “I’m scared that I might get hurt; I’m scared that I won’t have enough money; That people may not like me; I might not like them; I might not like the food; I might get lost….” Whatever comes up, that’s your resistance. You follow the emotions; you sit with the emotions that come up. There are various techniques in my book for doing that, for helping to clear that resistance which I have no doubt you’ll have no trouble following now that you know that you’re not trying to get rid of your beliefs in psychics. You’re just trying to get rid of the resistance that they were mirroring back to you.
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Huge, happy, shiny puppy hugs to all of you, and see you next time.