Dear lovely readers,
I am currently on a weeklong Spa vacation in Austria. While I’m gone, I’ve decided to publish one reader question per post. Enjoy!
“What of soul mates? Obviously, we click to the core with certain people we are immensely attracted to from the moment we meet them, but it is not lust, just a heavy attraction you both can’t deny. Sometimes this occurs when both parties are married, for we meet by chance. If this happens, can there be future encounters with this person when the time is right? Is it all up to us?
You may not even believe in this concept, but there is something to it. It can’t all be BS.”
I do believe in the concept of soul mates, but perhaps not in the way that you mean. I do not believe that we are “destined” to be with certain people, and that if we find them we will automatically be happy and if we don’t, we are doomed to die alone. That is, indeed, BS.
However, I do believe that we set powerful pre-birth intentions, which are very general, and then we add to those intentions and define them more and more specifically as we live our lives. When someone matches our vibration in a significant way, we feel an attraction for them. When someone matches our core vibration, when Who They Really Are matches up with Who We Really Are in terms of our core intentions, then we feel an incredible connection with them, something that seems to surpass our human-ness. And it does. We then refer to these people as soul mates. But there’s never just one of these out there for each of us.
Just because you’ve found one person that you resonate deeply with doesn’t mean that no one else exists that you feel a connection with. That’s like saying that you love Pizza and now that you love Pizza you cannot love Burgers anymore. Of course you can still love Burgers. But you may not choose to eat them anymore if doing so would be against your intentions – i.e. when the feeling you’d get from eating that burger would pale in comparison to the feeling you get when you have Pizza. In that case, you’d be looking at the Burger but thinking of Pizza the whole time.
Is it possible for two people who have a massive connection to meet up again at a later date if they were not available to each other when they did? Yes. But I’d caution against making that the goal. Make feeling connected the goal. It’s entirely possible that your current partner could then fill that role and your connection could deepen until you it matches what you want. It that’s not the case, however, then focusing on what you want will eventually cause a split and you will match up with a person that does match your desire.
If you are currently happily married (meaning, you are not trying to hold on to something that was over ages ago), then meeting someone that really rattles your cage is most likely NOT a message that you should get out of the marriage, but a glimpse of something you want but which you have not been allowing. It’s a sign to adjust your vibration. There’s a big difference between simply reacting to your partner’s behavior and energy and deliberately focusing your way to the feeling you want and then letting LOA change your reality to match it.